Becoming a Natural in Front of the Lens

I'm beginning to think that being 'naturally photogenic' is a state of mind. That's a bold statement coming from a photographer, I know. Sure, there are people that are strikingly beautiful, but sometimes they can be the most awkward in front of the camera. Actually, I don't really love being in front of the camera myself. So, how do we fix that? Inevitably times will come where we'll need our photo taken (especially on those important occasions like engagements and weddings).  Below are a few tips for feeling less like a gremlin and more like the shining unicorn that you are in front of the camera. 

Comfort

If you know you're being photographed ahead of time, choose a comfortable setting and clothing to match. Choose an clothing that makes you feel like yourself. Comfort doesn't have to mean casual, but it can! Talk with your photographer about doing a home session. Those are some of my favorite sessions, because the client is most often more relaxed in their own element. 

Confidence

I love this quote by Anne Lamott. It's true! The best way to look good while being photographed is to be confident. It definitely translates on camera. Take a look in the mirror. Instead of picking out the flaws (which is so easy to do), highlight the things that you love about yourself, the things that make you you. Own it. If I think of those who inspire me most, it is always their peace and sense of self that is most empowering

Reflect

Sometimes when I'm feeling a little hard on myself, I'll scroll through some old photos on social media. I'll stroll down memory lane and remember all those sweet times and see myself how I was back then. Usually I'll end up thinking, 'why was I so hard on myself? I looked great!' and try to remember the same is true for now. 

We are beautiful in this season. Whether that's feeling and looking your best today or carrying an extra 20 pounds because you're growing a human. Wherever you might be today, remember you are the only you. Be gracious to yourself. We have the potential to be something beautiful and miraculous on this earth. 

xo, 

Sabrina

Nikki Caldwell of Fluid Bloom

I first heard of Fluid Bloom when I was at Bello Mundo Cafe. A kind lady came in and brought the cafe a beautiful arrangement consisting of tillandsia plants, succulents, and coffee beans. All to show appreciation for a fellow small business in San Luis Obispo. My heart immediately was won over by their kindness and I've been so interested in getting to know them ever since. 

Last week I met with Nikki Caldwell, the heart and head behind Fluid Bloom Designs. It's difficult to describe in just a few words how beautiful and wonderful this woman is, so you should meet with her yourself. We were kindred spirits from the very beginning of our conversation, laughing and encouraging one another with our stories and lifestyles. 

When I asked Nikki why she began Fluid Bloom, she described it as an "extension of herself." It's a space not only to have creative freedom, but to enhance the lives of others through floral design. 'People are most often getting flowers to celebrate,' she included, touching on the joys of wedding clients as well and those with a loved one who has recently passed--celebrating their life. 

Nikki spent many years working with over eight different flower shops and designers to develop her craft and process. The shop is also going through its own changes right now. Before meeting with Nikki, I stopped by their Chorro Street location to take a few photos, which are pictured here. When I met with Nikki, I learned of the new changes with Fluid Bloom. This week she sold the storefront to have the freedom of creating at a more individual basis, with much of her orders coming from their website.  

Fluid Bloom creates stunning and unique floral arrangements that reflect you, not just the skills of the shop. Nikki's passion for people was so evident in our time together. Among dreams of cross-country travel, she also loves the community she's been apart of here in San Luis Obispo. Her heart bubbled over telling me about the people she's had the privilege of working with--getting to listen to not only their needs, but their personality as well. Her discernment and insight create these one-of-a-kind arrangements. 

-Don't forget to check out Fluid Bloom at their online shop-

I highly recommend them to those planning their Day! 

March!

1 THIS QUOTE // 2 THIS PHOTOGRAPHER // 3 THE ARRANGEMENT // 4 THESE COLORS 

5 THESE RINGS // 6 THE BLOGGER AND HER INSTA FEED // 7 THE ARTICLE, AND MAGAZINE

Also, this sandwich, and this article. 

Hooray for March! 

It has come with some much needed rain for us, I'm looking forward to this fresh new month.  

More photography, spending time with friends, and more chasing dreams. 

My photo-editing playlist is about played through. 

Have any favorites right now? 

S.